Yesterday, a mother-in-law posted an article in the face club "Based on the North 2.0", describing that she had almost become the "witch" that everyone calls her. Fortunately, she had a daughter who was the same daughter-in-law,...
Yesterday, a mother-in-law posted an article in the face club "Based on the North 2.0", describing that she had almost become the "witch" that everyone calls her. Fortunately, she had a daughter who was the same daughter-in-law, reminding her of the importance of "reconciliation thinking", which made her wake up instantly. And after some thoughts on changing positions, this mother-in-law couldn't help but feel moved: "The daughter is really different from the daughter-in-law."
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law stay and keep nurturing, and the angel girl said "Sitting Thoughts"The mother-in-law said that she currently lives with her son and daughter-in-law. She is still peaceful when she gets along, and she will not interfere with her daughter-in-law. When her son and daughter-in-law see anything delicious and fun, they will ask them if they want to go together, or take a copy home for them to eat.
However, when my mother-in-law heard the news that my daughter-in-law had decided to leave a job and take a child at home, and she thought that "it would be very hard and slack for the whole family to make money alone." So, the mother-in-law said to her daughter-in-law a few words: "It's hard to make money", "You have to treat your husband", "You can't leave a job and leave a job and take a job and take a child at home". Although her face was not very good after listening, she went back to the room without saying anything.
On that day, the daughter of this mother-in-law, also wanted to take a child at home, and the girl who had a job off-payment happened to go back to her parents' home to have a meal. After hearing what her mother-in-law said just now, she asked her not to talk about this in front of her daughter-in-law, and said that she was very unhappy as a daughter-in-law!
The younger sister-in-law then pretended that her mother-in-law also said the same thing to her. As a result, the mother-in-law immediately criticized the mother-in-law for being too bad. Her daughter sacrificed her career and brought children. Although she had no income, she only paid more or less to the family. What do you think that her daughter would not think about it!
The younger sister-in-law heard it and said, "Look, this is the difference between mother and mother-in-law. Your daughter-in-law is also someone else's daughter. Just keep taking children and the couple have a common understanding. You don't need to talk about it~"
I feel sorry for helping my daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, but will the role change to marry a good husband?This mother-in-law also shared that she often feels that her daughter-in-law is too fond. Although she has not shown up, every time she sees her son helping her wife wash clothes and underwear, she will silently feel sorry for her son whenever she sees her daughter-in-law helps her with everything.
But the daughter said, "It is a condition to be a wife. First of all, you need a husband who cares about you." Because the situation of the daughter and son-in-law is just the opposite. It is all the daughter who is in charge of the family, and this mother-in-law often feels very upset because her son-in-law makes her daughter too busy.
The daughter's words also made this mother-in-law think carefully. If the daughter-in-law was her daughter today, she would definitely think that her daughter married a good husband, but now she thinks that her daughter is very happy. It makes her son so hard that she can't help but say, "The daughter is really different from her daughter-in-law."
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Do not do to others what you do not want others to do to you! Avoid becoming a "witch" that I also quarrel with,. This mother-in-law also mentioned at the end of the article that she is also trying to learn how to be a good mother-in-law. As a mother, it is inevitable that she will feel sorry for her children. It is really difficult to be a sidekick. However, I thought I was always in a state of disagreement when facing my mother-in-law that year, but I still felt unhappy.
After this article was exposed, many netizens praised this angel sister-in-law's empathy! Also like the idea of "relationship thinking is important", netizens said that fortunately this mother-in-law has a wise daughter and knows how to share her thoughts as a daughter-in-law. Some netizens also said that this mother-in-law does not have to worry about her son. If her son is willing to love her daughter-in-law and support her daughter-in-law, it means that she has taught her son very well!
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