In an era when traditional conception of "the male lead is outside and the female lead is inside", women are considered to stay at home to take care of their husbands and children after marriage, and be responsible for the family. Working...
In an era when traditional conception of "the male lead is outside and the female lead is inside", women are considered to stay at home to take care of their husbands and children after marriage, and be responsible for the family. Working and raising a family is the responsibility of men. Therefore, they often think that women have to rely on marriage to have a support, and women have to rely on men to raise their care after marriage. They believe that women must find a good family to pay for their life, and their lives are complete!
But in today's society, men and women tend to be equal. Both men and women have the right to decide their lives independently. Marriage life is not necessarily suitable for everyone, and marriage is not a support for anyone. Men do not have to marry and have children to have intentions in life, and women do not have to marry and have a support for them. In this regard, Yuanqi.com asked netizens for their opinions on the face fans page and explored everyone's thoughts on "Only women can rely on when they get married?"
There are still many elders who believe that women have to rely on when they get married! And elders with this kind of concept usually like to play the role of matchmaker, actively introduce the object and the misunderstanding, and are afraid that they will not get married after being married at the age of marriage, which makes many people who are single and late to get married very troublesome. After all, "Does women have to rely on when they get married?"
Most netizens objected. "Do not marry or not, marriage depends on yourself. Marriage is not the support of anyone", "I don't agree very much! It's so good to marry (rely) but not easy to marry (wow)", "I don't agree, but after marriage, I see everything better, rely on a ghost", "I don't agree! When I recognize the reality, anyone's greatest foundation (reliance) comes from economic strength", "This is a joke !Miscellaneous dreams", "If you don't get married, you live freely, freely and happy, what kind of life do you want to live with your own decisions", "It's not that you have to rely on yourself! You have to do things", "It's better to rely on yourself than a husband who is married to a card game, women are not worse than men", "It's better to rely on you, but if you don't get married, you can't escape even if you want to", "It's not that you have to rely on you after marriage, right?" There are still a lot of burdens.”
A small number of netizens expressed their agreement. "It's the same, only when a man and a woman get married can rely on her, especially for her heart!", "Agree! (Auntie, I don't want to work hard anymore)", "Married couples rely on each other, and they can only be taken care of in life, and no one will take care of each other", "When you are young, you know that being alone is a terrible thing", "Rely on yourself mainly, others can only rely on them."
Some netizens also have different opinions. , "It's most practical to be a queen", "Rely on yourself! It's very despicable to marry a scumbag..." , "Money is the most real support!" , "I'll have a happy life without marriage! I don't think I should be taken care of by my children when I'm old. When I'm old, one party will die first. Who will die late and who is unlucky? Whether it's accompaniment or a child, they are not the ones who should take care of you. It's better to hand it over to a professional nursing institution and do business. If you have a problem with love, it will not drag down the next generation. ", "Each age has different feelings and the answers are also different. There are a lot of scumbags and girls, it depends on your life encounter!", "You have economic ability and also keep your body well. Don't cause family burdens. It doesn't matter whether you marry or not! When you get married, you must assume family responsibility. You have to think clearly before getting married! Otherwise, there will be a marriage crisis soon."
In fact, a happy marriage is a woman's life, but not the only life. If a woman unfortunately marrys a bad man and marrys a man who suffers from domestic violence, affair, and loves to be a lover, it is better to live a good life alone.
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Don't love your brain! Thinking about 5 questions before entering marriageMarriage is a major decision in life. It requires careful thinking and measurement. Don’t be excited and enter the marriage at once. Before entering marriage, you should ask yourself the following 5 questions:
1. Choose a marriage partner carefully: find a partner who is suitable for you, can respect, trust and support each other, and can jointly run a happy marriage. Don't choose objects hastily because of pressure.
2. Don't rush to make decisions: Marriage is an important decision, don't rush to make decisions. You must understand yourself and the other party well, think about your value and life goals, and then make a decision.
3. Understand family background: Marriage is not just a matter of two people, but also involves the background and value of two families. Understanding the other party’s family background can help you better understand the other party and avoid conflicts in the future.
4. Marriage is not necessary: Marriage is a choice in life, and not everyone must marry. If you think you can do well in a single body, don't be influenced by pressure or other people's expectations.
5. Work hard to run a marriage: Marriage is not a static state, and requires both parties to work hard to run. Learn to communicate, understand, and be appropriate, and often express concern and love for the other party.
